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Jonh Stuart On what we lose in inequality

vutran | June 2, 2021, 7:41 a.m.

“Humans face enough natural challenges, that to cut ourselves off from any part of the available pool of brainpower costs society timely and insightful solutions to our problems—solutions that may be better than the existing ones.” 

— Jonh Stuart

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Fryer on persuading people on intellectual basis alone is not enough

vutran | June 2, 2021, 7:39 a.m.

Conventional rhetoric. In the business world, this typically takes the form of PowerPoint slides filled with bulleted facts and statistics. It’s an intellectual process. But it is problematic, because while you’re trying to persuade your audience, they are arguing with you in their heads. McKee says, “If you do succeed in persuading them, you’ve only done so on an intellectual basis. That’s not good enough, because people are not inspired to act by reason alone”

— Fryer 

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Shane Parrish On when we are free

vutran | June 1, 2021, 8:09 p.m.

“You’re free when no one can buy your time.” 

— Shane Parrish

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Esther Perel On the way differences expressed makes all the differences

vutran | June 1, 2021, 7:46 a.m.

"When people grow apart it’s not because they have a difference of opinion necessarily, because some couples have major differences in opinion but they continue to remain deeply connected, curious about each other, respectful of who they are, and they’re not threatened by the difference of the other basically. In other couples, the slightest difference is World War III. It’s not in the difference itself, it’s in the way that people experience the difference."

— Esther Perel

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Antoine de Saint‐Exupery On when we know we achieve perfection

vutran | June 1, 2021, 7:44 a.m.

“You know you’ve achieved perfection, not when you have nothing more to add, but when you have nothing to take away”

— Antoine de Saint‐Exupery

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William Deresiewicz On listening to our own thinking

vutran | May 31, 2021, 8:40 p.m.

When you expose yourself to those things, especially in the constant way that people do now—older people as well as younger people—you are continuously bombarding yourself with a stream of other people’s thoughts. You are marinating yourself in the conventional wisdom. In other people’s reality: for others, not for yourself. You are creating a cacophony in which it is impossible to hear your own voice, whether it’s yourself you’re thinking about or anything else. 


That’s what Emerson meant when he said that “he who should inspire and lead his race must be defended from travelling with the souls of other men, from living, breathing, reading, and writing in the daily, time-worn yoke of their opinions.” Notice that he uses the word lead. Leadership means finding a new direction, not simply putting yourself at the front of the herd that’s heading toward the cliff.” 


— William Deresiewicz

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William Deresiewicz On concentration

vutran | May 31, 2021, 8:37 p.m.

“Thinking means concentrating on one thing long enough to develop an idea about it. Not learning other people’s ideas, or memorizing a body of information, however much those may sometimes be useful. “ 

— William Deresiewicz

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